Sick And Tired Of Not Getting What You Deserve?

Let’s discuss something we’re all familiar with: Self-worth and how we assess it.

Every one of us has worth and value. 𝘠𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘷𝘢𝘭𝘶𝘦 𝘪𝘴 𝘢𝘭𝘸𝘢𝘺𝘴 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘴𝘢𝘮𝘦; 𝘪𝘵’𝘴 𝘩𝘰𝘸 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘢𝘴𝘴𝘦𝘴𝘴 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘴𝘦𝘭𝘧-𝘸𝘰𝘳𝘵𝘩 𝘵𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘤𝘩𝘢𝘯𝘨𝘦𝘴 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘵𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘩𝘢𝘱𝘱𝘦𝘯𝘴 𝘦𝘷𝘦𝘳𝘺 𝘥𝘢𝘺.

❓Have you ever noticed that sometimes, when you start to envision something wonderful for yourself, you make up a reason why it can’t happen? Like you don’t deserve to get what you want?

Who is it that actually gets what they deserve? Who do you think is deciding what you deserve? I mean, think about it. It’s 𝙔𝙊𝙐.

⭐️If we weigh everything that happens in our lives into our sense of deserving, then we measure everything that comes at us to see if it matches our inner sense of self-worth.

⭐️If we don’t feel we deserve something, we deflect it. If we feel we do deserve something we develop a constant craving and sense of entitlement to what we believe we deserve.

But the idea of ‘just desserts’ is something we create for ourselves based on our own thoughts and ideas. (Again, who decides what each person deserves?)

‼️Here’s a better idea: 𝙙𝒆𝙘𝒊𝙙𝒆 𝒘𝙝𝒂𝙩 𝙮𝒐𝙪 𝙬𝒂𝙣𝒕. 𝙎𝒆𝙩 𝙖 𝙜𝒐𝙖𝒍. 𝙈𝒂𝙠𝒆 𝒂 𝒑𝙡𝒂𝙣. 𝑭𝙤𝒍𝙡𝒐𝙬 𝙞𝒕. 𝙃𝒐𝙥𝒆 𝒇𝙤𝒓 𝒕𝙝𝒆 𝒃𝙚𝒔𝙩. 😜

I mean, what else can you do? Some people work hard, and it pays off. Some people do nothing and get so much in return. Some put their all behind something, and it never pays off.

You just don’t know what will happen. The most you can do is try. But in order to even attempt to achieve that goal, 𝗬𝗢𝗨 𝗛𝗔𝗩𝗘 𝗧𝗢 𝗕𝗘𝗟𝗜𝗘𝗩𝗘 𝗜𝗡 𝗬𝗢𝗨𝗥𝗦𝗘𝗟𝗙. You'll never get a win if you don’t think you ‘deserve’ one.

So look in the mirror and tell that face looking back at you: 𝒀𝙊𝑼 𝑪𝘼𝑵 𝑫𝙊 𝙄𝑻🫶🏼, you sexy beast.

⭐️Be confident in who you are. Trust in your abilities. Don’t be afraid to fail because the mere act of trying makes you strong AF.

❓What’s a dream you have that you’re a little scared to try to make a reality? I’d love to hear about it 💕

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With love,

Coach Jess 💕