Unlock the Secret to Better Communication

I’m sure you’ve heard the phrase, “Communication is key.” That’s because IT IS!

🍎As a native New Yorker living out west, I often hear that people like East Coasters because they tell you exactly what they think, feel, and want. There is no bullsh*t and people tend to appreciate that.

On the flip side, some people perceive this as rude or pushy. 𝐈𝐓 𝐈𝐒 𝐍𝐎𝐓

Being assertive is an asset. Being comfortable enough to speak your mind makes life a lot easier for you and anyone you are involved with.

When you lack clarity, you wind up making assumptions. Not asking the questions that come to mind can lead to overthinking, doubt, and worry and can even destroy relationships.

One of my favorite sayings is, “𝐈𝐟 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐝𝐨𝐧’𝐭 𝐚𝐬𝐤, 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐚𝐧𝐬𝐰𝐞𝐫 𝐢𝐬 𝐚𝐥𝐰𝐚𝐲𝐬 ‘𝐧𝐨.’”

🤔Think about it: How often have you ‘hinted’ at something and been disappointed that your partner didn’t pick up on it? How many times have you wished you had said something but chose not to?

Getting what you want from life is tough if you’re afraid to ask for it. Being able to communicate openly removes so much uncertainty. It allows you to express yourself and define your wants and needs, saving you time, anxiety, worrying, and a potential spiral of negative thoughts.

🌟Good communication skills go hand in hand with being comfortable enough with yourself to be assertive, make decisions, and be direct.

Communication is vital in all aspects of life—relationships, careers, and getting what you want in any situation. 𝐆𝐨𝐨𝐝 𝐜𝐨𝐦𝐦𝐮𝐧𝐢𝐜𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧 𝐬𝐤𝐢𝐥𝐥𝐬 𝐠𝐨 𝐡𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐢𝐧 𝐡𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡 𝐛𝐞𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐬𝐞𝐜𝐮𝐫𝐞 𝐞𝐧𝐨𝐮𝐠𝐡 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫𝐬𝐞𝐥𝐟 𝐭𝐨 𝐛𝐞 𝐚𝐬𝐬𝐞𝐫𝐭𝐢𝐯𝐞, 𝐦𝐚𝐤𝐞 𝐝𝐞𝐜𝐢𝐬𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬, 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐛𝐞 𝐝𝐢𝐫𝐞𝐜𝐭.

⁉️Here’s some food for thought: Which would you regret more? Something you said? Or not saying something when you had the chance? I would love to know what you think!

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